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Yud-Alef Nissan

Birthday of the Rebbe (1902)

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"I Will Mention It at the Ohel" Is a Proper Bracha

As I Heard Them, Vol. 1, pp. 462-463, no. 72 · The Rebbe

Continued from the biography of R. Zalman Duchman:

Thou­sands of peo­ple mer­ited to re­ceive the re­sponse from the Rebbe, “I will men­tion it at the Ohel [ of the Frierdiker Rebbe];” words that left the re­cip­i­ent op­ti­misti­cally wait­ing for sal­va­tion. How­ever, early on, chas­sidim were still un­fa­mil­iar with the sig­nif­i­cance of this an­swer.

In the year 5712 (1952), R. Zal­man en­coun­tered a cou­ple in Toronto who had been mar­ried for seven years but had not yet mer­ited chil­dren. Be­ing the Rebbe’s shli­ach, they begged him to re­quest a bracha from the Rebbe on their be­half, and R. Zal­man promised them that he would.

Upon re­turn­ing to New York, R. Zal­man went to 770 and per­son­ally ap­proached the Rebbe to ask for bracha. The Rebbe replied that he would men­tion them at the Ohel of the Frierdiker Rebbe. Feel­ing it was some­thing short of a bracha, R. Zal­man’s gra­cious heart com­pelled him to ask for more. He boldly spoke up, “But Rebbe, why can’t the Rebbe give them a proper bracha?” The Rebbe didn’t re­spond and con­tin­ued on to his room.

The fol­low­ing year, R. Zal­man vis­ited Toronto and was de­lighted to meet the cou­ple hold­ing a baby girl. Com­mu­ni­ca­tion at that time was poor — long-dis­tance phone calls were not com­mon—and the good news hadn’t reached him in New York. The cou­ple ex­pressed their cer­tainty that their daugh­ter was born be­cause of the Rebbe’s bracha. In grat­i­tude to the Rebbe and to his shli­ach, they gave R. Zal­man a sub­stan­tial do­na­tion, de­spite not be­ing so well-off.

Im­me­di­ately upon re­turn­ing to Crown Heights, R. Zal­man hur­ried to in­form the Rebbe of the good news. He stood by the el­e­va­tor, in the same spot where he had stood a year ear­lier when he re­quested the bracha. As the Rebbe re­turned to his room af­ter min­cha, R. Zal­man ap­proached the Rebbe and re­spect­fully said, “The Rebbe surely re­mem­bers that last year I asked for a bracha for chil­dren on be­half of a cou­ple in Toronto. I am now happy to in­form the Rebbe that they were blessed with a healthy girl. ”

With­out say­ing a word, the Rebbe con­tin­ued to­wards his room. As he was about to open the door, the Rebbe turned around and said to Reb Zal­man with a smile, “ Nu, Reb Zal­man, ‘I will men­tion it at the Ohel’ is a proper bracha!”

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"Trust Me" — The Birthday LeChaim and the Miracle of Yud-Beis Tammuz

As I Heard Them, Vol. 1, pp. 268-269, no. 110 · The Rebbe

On Yud-Beis Tam­muz, af­ter be­ing in­formed un­of­fi­cially that he was free, the Rebbe re­lated that on Yud-Beis Tam­muz in 5654 (1894 ) (Yud-Beis Tam­muz is the Rebbe’s birth­day, and in 5654 he be­came four­teen years old) they were on va­ca­tion and his fa­ther, the Rebbe Rashab, poured out LeChaims.

“Where did you see such a prac­tice?”2 the Rash­batz asked him. “By your fa­ther? Or your grand­fa­ther?”

“Trust me, ” the Rashab replied.

“And I am grate­ful to him, ” con­cluded the Rebbe.

(When I was dis­cussing the sub­ject of birth­days in yechidus with the Rebbe Shlita, and I re­lated the above story, the Rebbe asked me, “Whom did the Rebbe have in mind when he said, ‘I am grate­ful to him’?”

I an­swered that I al­ways tell the story with the un­der­stand­ing that the Rebbe meant his fa­ther. “No, ” the Rebbe replied, “he meant the Rash­batz, who caused the Rebbe to say, ‘Trust me’ - this was the mir­a­cle of Yud- Beis Tam­muz.”)

  1. I.e., celebrating a birthday. ↩
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The Swallowed Safety Pin and the Magnet

As I Heard Them, Vol. 1, pp. 476-478, no. 21 · The Rebbe

Continued from the biography of R. Yisroel Duchman:

Per­haps what a fa­ther wants more than any­thing else is that his chil­dren per­pet­u­ate those things that are dear to him. For this rea­son, R. Yis­roel would al­ways seek to teach his chil­dren the im­por­tance of hiskashrus, bond­ing with the Rebbe, and train them in this en­deavor. In­deed, some of his most im­por­tant in­ter­ac­tions with the Rebbe cen­tered around his chil­dren.

Once when his sec­ond son, Yossi, was a young child, he swal­lowed an open safety pin. The pin had de­scended be­yond the reach of any in­stru­ments and had lodged in a point in his esoph­a­gus where it pre­sented a very real dan­ger. Not know­ing any way to re­move it, the doc­tors planned surgery. They warned that the surgery could have neg­a­tive con­se­quences, but leav­ing the pin there could be life-threat­en­ing. When they asked for R. Yis­roel’s con­sent, he an­swered that be­fore he agreed to any­thing, he would have to con­sult the Rebbe.

The Rebbe ob­jected to the surgery and said that they should see the doc­tor who was sched­uled to per­form the surgery and have him speak to the Rebbe. That sur­geon re­fused to meet with them or speak to the Rebbe on the phone. In­stead, the Rebbe spoke by phone with the head of the emer­gency room, and gave him pre­cise in­struc­tions how the pin could be re­moved by low­er­ing a strong mag­net down the boy’s throat. Need­less to say, by fol­low­ing the Rebbe’s in­struc­tions, the doc­tor was able to ex­tri­cate the pin with­out dif­fi­culty.

Af­ter the pro­ce­dure was fin­ished, the doc­tor who had orig­i­nally been sched­uled to per­form the surgery in­sisted that he speak to the Duch­mans. He told them, “My fa­ther was a doc­tor. If my own fa­ther had told me that he had re­moved the pin with­out surgery, I wouldn’t have be­lieved him. It was pos­si­ble only be­cause of your holy Rebbe. ”

At a later date, when Yossi had al­ready ma­tured, he asked his fa­ther to re­quest a bless­ing from the Rebbe for him. The Rebbe gave a gen­er­ous bless­ing and told R. Yis­roel, “You can tell Yossi, I think about him more than he thinks about me. ”

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The Hatmaker Who Sews for Whoever Buys

As I Heard Them, Vol. 1, pp. 85-86, no. 16 · The Rebbe

The Rebbe once said at a far­bren­gen in New York22 that Who­ever says a state­ment in the name of its au­thor brings re­demp­tion to the world23 — and each of us is ob­li­gated in this. And he there­upon re­lated a story I had writ­ten:)

The Tzemach Tzedek once said, “I’m like some­one who sews hats. Later on, when some­one buys the hat, it’s a sign that I had sewn it for him.”

I also heard in Lubav­itch from R. Groinem, the mash­pia, that the Tzemach Tzedek said, “I have no one specif­i­cally in mind when I dis­cuss a spir­i­tual predica­ment. But if some­one thinks I am talk­ing about him — then in­deed I mean him.”

  1. Simchas Torah 5715 (1954 ), Toras Menachem, Vol. 13, p. 75. ↩
  2. Pirkei Avos 6:6. ↩
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The Opaque Glasses

As I Heard Them, Vol. 1, p. 128, no. 18 · The Rebbe

The Rebbe Ma­ha­rash once stood at a train sta­tion, wear­ing glasses and look­ing around. Peo­ple later dis­cov­ered that the lenses were made of quartz — and were opaque.

(The Rebbe Shlita noted: My fa­ther-in-law, the Rebbe, re­counted the story of the Rebbe Ma­ha­rash’s glasses in the name of R. Monye Monis­sohn, who checked the glasses first -hand — but in Marien­bad.)

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