Yahrzeit of the Frierdiker Rebbe (1950); the Rebbe formally accepted leadership with Basi LeGani (1951)
י׳ שבט
10 Shevat
"It Is the Same Father"
As I Heard Them, Vol. 1, p. 251, no. 88
When we received the bitter, dreadful news ( of the Rebbe’s passing on Yud Shevat, 5710 (1950) ) I fell to the ground, stunned; only my lips moved: “We are lost, we are lost…. ”
I remember now what I had heard from the senior chassidim: that those chassidim who said “he” in every generation — were mistaken. And I myself, sometime after [the passing of] our Rebbe (the Rebbe Rashab ), would say, “If my father is not here, can I take another father?” But only afterwards I understood: it is the same father, but with greater strength.
And when I came for Rosh Hashanah, 5683 (1922), the Rebbe said in the first yechidus, “We provide parnassah for our children. ”
Continued from the biography of R. Zalman Duchman:
On Yud Shevat, 5710 (1950), the Frierdiker Rebbe passed away. Soon after, R. Zalman wrote our Rebbe a long letter accepting the Rebbe as his successor, though the Rebbe would not accept the mantle of leadership until a year later.
Several months after the Frierdiker Rebbe’s passing, R. Zalman writes to the Rebbe, “ Nu… we need to update the honorific titles… ” meaning to replace the wishes for health with a mention of his righteous memory. Then R. Zalman added, “Although my grandfather R. Mordechai Yoel of Homil, when he would talk about the Tzemach Tzedek – even years after his passing – would say ‘the Rebbe, may he be well, ’ and then he would catch his mistake and add ‘in Gan Eden. ’”
In his response, the Rebbe addresses this point, “You write that you are afraid to say ‘may he be healthy’ [about the Frierdiker Rebbe after his passing] since it is not customary to do so. What’s the fear? It is explained in [Tanya] Epistle Twenty-Eight, that the life of a tzaddik is faith, love, and fear. In that case [in a spiritual sense] he is very healthy. ”
The Rebbe Shlita described, in the name of the chassidim, how the Rebbe Rayatz was deeply shaken when his grandmother, Rebbetzin Rivkah, passed away on Yud Shevat in 5674 (1914).
My brother Chaim Baruch - who was there on motzaei Shabbos (Yud Shevat fell on erev Shabbos that year), and saw and heard the Rebbe daven Maariv - described the situation to me. The crying was beyond description.
The underlying reason, it was said, was that the Rebbe had taken the responsibility upon himself. She had requested that he contact his father (the Rebbe Rashab ), who was in Menton at the time, yet he was very protective of his father’s time and energy. I heard that Lieberman, the renowned physician, was summoned from Vitebsk and had said there was no danger. And when the report of Yud Shevat, 5710 (1950),33 arrived I said that then we could have some idea of the Rebbe’s overwhelming sense of loss in 5674. It is also worth noting that on the 13 th of Shevat, 5702 (1942), when the Rebbe Rayatz’s mother Rebbetzin Shterna Sarah passed away in New York, the Rebbe Rayatz was traveling, unable to be there.
As I Heard Them, Vol. 1, pp. 204-206, no. 12 · The Frierdiker Rebbe
At one point during Simchas Torah , 5685 (1924 ), in Leningrad, the Rebbe Rayatz exclaimed passionately, “What sort of chossid sleeps until nine in the morning and, already by ten, has finished davening, eaten breakfast, and is strolling along Nevesky Street (Leningrad’s main thoroughfare), directing his eyes at the wrong places? With the notion that by wearing a kapotah and gartel he is a chossid. Or, he imagines, by giving three rubles [to the Rebbe], he is a chossid. Now three rubles are three rubles — but that won’t do it.
“R. Hillel (Paritcher) once said that he doesn’t like one who strayed and did teshuvah — such a person went far astray, and who knows what sort of teshuvah he did?
“For sure, stripping oneself naked is not the intention; but there is a concept of confessing one’s misdeeds.
“In truth — there’s a question: How can we understand the precept, In the place where baalei teshuvah stand, perfect tzaddikim are unable to stand?59 This one ate pupiks (gizzards ) — while the other one learned Torah and davened! The answer is: He is not the same person; he is someone else.”60
And the Rebbe turned to a young man from Kherson living in Moscow: “It’s not you ... You must take upon yourself ‘divrei chavrus’;61 you will give a Kiddush on Shabbos Bereishis.
“Everyone must take upon himself ‘divrei chavrus’ that he will not sleep past seven in the morning (an early hour for Leningrad’s winters, when sunrise is at nine). ”
He has transformed himself entirely. See also Rambam, Hilchos Teshuvah 2:4: "The way of teshuvah is … saying, 'I am someone else and not the same person who did those actions. " ↩
A term borrowed from the days of the Mishna, when there were conditions to be considered a "chaver" (a Jew of integrity who could be trusted regarding maaser [tithes] and ritual purity). ↩
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As I Heard Them, Vol. 1, pp. 263-265, no. 103 · The Frierdiker Rebbe
The Rashag, the Rebbe’s son-in-law, came for Shabbos from Kostrama, and, after Minchah, near the balcony in the large zal, told a few of us, in the Rebbe’s name, many questions the interrogators had asked, the Rebbe’s responses and, in general, what he had undergone.
When he entered the interrogation room an investigator with a stubby nose and a stutter was seated there. The walls were thin, made of plywood. Senior officials sat further back in the room.
When Lulav and Nachmanson came in, the Rebbe told them, “History will record this disgrace: who was appointed to interrogate the Lubavitcher Rebbe. ” When they began to accuse him of espionage, he reacted sharply, “Retract this at once. Do you want to make another Beilis Affair?”26 And when they started talking about disseminating Torah, he said, “I am not a teacher; I salute learning Torah. ”
Until they returned his tefillin he would not answer any questions.
When the interrogator gave him a glass of water and he put on his hat to recite the blessing Shehakol, they said, “You think you’re so important; you don’t think you can be shorter by a head?”
“The whole earth is filled with His glory,”27 he answered.
Menachem Mendel Beilis was a Ukrainian Jew accused of ritual murder in the notorious 1913 blood-libel trial known as the “Beilis Affair. ” ↩