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Tisha B'Av

Holiday · 9 Av

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Reciting Chassidus on Tisha B'Av

As I Heard Them, Vol. 1, pp. 347-348, no. 48

In his youth the narrator's zeide traveled from Lubavitch and the Tzemach Tzedek to Homil, where Reb Aizel questioned him in detail about the trip, since his interest in Lubavitch and the Tzemach Tzedek was intense and he wanted every particular. When the subject of Tisha B'Av came up, Reb Aizel asked where he had been; the zeide said Korma, and that they had recited Chassidus. Reb Aizel retorted, "You think you're so special, to recite Chassidus on Tisha B'Av?!"

2 min to tellvery good to tell 217 wordsRebbe Rayatz story_000465

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Stories carrying the themes this occasion is about, though not tagged to it directly.

Stalietov Will Never Think to Ask That

As I Heard Them, Vol. 1, pp. 119-120, no. 4

In the summer of 5675 (1915), lodging in Pinsk with R. Yisroel Yitzchak Lubinsky, the narrator heard this from him. The Rebbe Maharash would always say that a matter should be heard as it seems and answered as it seems — in a general manner. When the authorities in Semyanovka, Chernigov province, discovered untaxed alcohol being taken from the factory, a major trial was set for thirteen defendants with R. Yisroel Yitzchak as a witness, and the well-known investigator Stalietov was coming from Petersburg; R. Yisroel Yitzchak went to the Rebbe Maharash in Lubavitch and, because many Yidden faced prison, asked the Rebbe to hear out his prepared answers, ending with one question he did not know how to answer. The Rebbe told him that he is a Yid with a good head who is not sunk in physical desires, while Stalietov is a goy without such a mind and caught up in desires, so it would never occur to him to ask such questions — and so it was: the trial ended favorably.

4 min to tellexcellent to tell 488 wordsRebbe Maharash story_000122

The Guest Who Was Konson's Grandson

As I Heard Them, Vol. 1, pp. 492-494, no. 14

A member of Anash phoned R. Eliyahu's house asking Mrs. Lipskar to host a family arriving in Toronto with nowhere to stay; things were difficult for her then and she did not answer at once, but when the husband himself called the next day from the road, travelling with his wife and small baby, she gave him her address and prepared her home. After they had rested she asked about their origins, and the guest, whose family name meant nothing to her, said his grandfather was Yisroel Konson of Leningrad and Tashkent — the R. Yisroel Konson who had risked his health to help her and her husband when they hovered between life and death. She was left speechless, and all who heard of the meeting were astounded by the Divine providence; the Lipskars then attended to the family's every need and offered them loans to buy a home in Toronto, so she was finally able to repay a debt that had weighed on her for years.

3 min to tellexcellent to tell 427 wordsR. Eliyahu Akiva Lipskar story_000673

Two Souls Speaking: The Tzemach Tzedek Parts From Reb Aizel

As I Heard Them, Vol. 1, pp. 299-300, no. 31

Although the Tzemach Tzedek had already taken leave of Reb Aizel before going to sleep, he came out again at two or three in the morning to say goodbye. The narrator's zeide watched them exchange the ordinary blessings of older men and then rest each one's head on the other's shoulder — he had no watch, he said, but he could attest they stood that way for between twenty and thirty minutes, and he saw two souls speaking with one another. Reb Aizel then called out that they would likely not see each other again unless Moshiach comes, and the Tzemach Tzedek raised his hands and said, "Go in peace, go in peace."

3 min to tellexcellent to tell 362 wordsRebbe Rayatz story_000390

Yad Ramah at the Train Station

As I Heard Them, Vol. 1, pp. 261-262, no. 100

The Rebbe had asked that a large crowd be at the station when he boarded the train to Kostrama for three years of exile, but word was hard to spread and most who came arrived early. On Sunday at dusk, the third of Tammuz, the chassidim formed two lines as the Rebbe approached the train, and R. Binyamin Althoiz said at the door that after his imprisonment in Petersburg the Alter Rebbe had begun leading with a high hand (yad ramah). The Rebbe replied that the Shavuos maamarim discuss three "hands" — yad hagdolah, yad hachazakah and yad ramah — and that ramah signifies Kesser and has the letters of koress: all the enemies should be cut off. By the time the narrator reached the station the Rebbe was already standing at the window of the yellow second-class car.

3 min to tellexcellent to tell 346 wordsRebbe Rayatz story_000331

The Man Who Wept for Reb Aizel

As I Heard Them, Vol. 1, pp. 307-308, no. 42

The zeide related that when Reb Aizel passed away, one man who was not among his students wept uncontrollably. Asked why, he explained that in his youth he had set out to commit a transgression, and Reb Aizel, walking behind him after davening in the Lubavitcher shul, shouted twice, 'Where are you going!? Go to shul and recite some Tehillim!' He said Reb Aizel had saved his life, and asked how he could not cry over such a tzaddik. Reb Aizel used to tell him, 'You have mazel,' and the zeide revealed the man's identity only after he passed away.

3 min to tellexcellent to tell 337 wordsRebbe Rayatz story_000401

The Note Left on the Table: Tehillim for All Chassidim

As I Heard Them, Vol. 1, pp. 255-256, no. 94

A note written by the Rebbe was found on the high table in his room after his arrest on Wednesday, 15 Sivan 5687 (1927) in Leningrad, and was later printed in Kuntres Yud-Beis Tammuz 5708. R. Pinchas, son of R. Eliyahu Chaim [Althoiz], kept the note hidden in Leningrad and would take it out, together with two letters the Rebbe wrote on Yud-Beis Tammuz, at the farbrengen held in his home every Yud-Beis Tammuz, and they would be read aloud. In the note the Rebbe instructs that in every chassidishe shul the daily portion of Tehillim be said with a minyan after Shacharis, including Shabbos, followed by Kaddish, and that shopkeepers and businessmen come to daven and to the Ein Yaakov class, promising Hashem's help with abundant livelihood. He tells chassidim to say that he instructs them, and other Yidden that out of Ahavas Yisroel and their well-being he begs them, closing with a blessing for a good year in ruchnius and gashmius and the complete Redemption through Moshiach.

4 min to tellvery good to tell 502 wordsRebbe Rayatz story_000325

When Itchele Farbrengs, Heaven Asks What Happened

As I Heard Them, Vol. 1, pp. 368-369, no. 4

R. Yitzchak Masmid related that in a small town lived an eminent chossid, R. Itchele. A wealthy man whose daughter had fallen ill gave him money for a pidyon nefesh — and instead the chossid gathered his chassidim for a festive seudah and farbrengen. Challenged by the gvir, he explained that Itchele fasting and weeping is nothing new before G-d, but when Itchele gathers his chassidim and farbrengs, Heaven asks what the occasion is and discovers that the gvir's daughter is ill — which he applied to the verse "And He looked upon their distress when He heard their rejoicing."

2 min to tellexcellent to tell 287 wordsRebbe Rayatz story_000488

The Guest Who Needed His Own Room

As I Heard Them, Vol. 1, pp. 429-430, no. 21

R. Zalman's poverty was dreadful -- when Chaya Grunya pointed out that their chairs were so battered it was an embarrassment to have them around, he could only suggest moving them to a room where they would not be seen -- yet he never hesitated to bring guests home, and his tiny apartment had a partition set up to make a sleeping area for them. Every Shabbos after davening he brought home the most unfortunate individuals; when his wife wondered whether there were any normal guests needing a meal, he explained that by the time he finished davening the shul was empty and only these people remained. One day a Yid came needing a place to stay, and R. Zalman gave him his own "private quarters" while the family crowded into the other cordoned area; in the middle of the night loud moaning was heard from behind the curtain and R. Zalman watched over him the whole night. The family later realized the man suffered from epilepsy and that R. Zalman had placed him apart so as to spare embarrassment, and his children took on the same extraordinary kindness -- sharing their food with guests and giving away their own beds while they slept on the floor in a corner.

2 min to tellexcellent to tell 280 wordsR. Zalman Duchman story_000577

The Melamdim Got Whatever Was in the Pocket

As I Heard Them, Vol. 1, pp. 195-196, no. 91

R. Yisroel Neveler related in the name of the gvir R. Nosson Gurary that R. Nosson traveled with the Rebbe Rashab to the Alter Rebbe's ohel in Haditch, where both gvirim and melamdim were to enter yechidus. The Rebbe instructed that the melamdim be admitted first and the gvirim afterwards, but R. Nosson reversed the order and told the gvirim to leave their contributions on the table. At the train station the Rebbe asked R. Nosson whether he had money for the tickets; when R. Nosson, who knew the gvirim had left money, was astonished, the Rebbe explained that since the melamdim came in afterwards there was money on hand, and he gave them whatever was in his pocket.

2 min to tellexcellent to tell 277 wordsRebbe Rashab story_000230

The Medicine That Was Meant to Be Sprinkled

As I Heard Them, Vol. 1, pp. 486-488, no. 8

Some time later the rov's two-year-old daughter was badly burned by scalding water, and though the Rebbe gave a bracha for a complete recovery, her father was disappointed not to be told to make a kiddush as R. Eliyahu had been. Days afterward Rabbi Hadakov conveyed in the Rebbe's name that he should arrange a kiddush in the girl's merit, which he did for that Shabbos. On Motzaei Shabbos her condition collapsed and the doctors gave her hours to live; the Rebbe told them to go to the hospital and make a shturem about the incorrect medicine, and since the rov was reserved by nature, R. Eliyahu went in his place. The doctors discovered that medicine prescribed to be sprinkled on her burns was instead being given to her to drink; once administered correctly, she recovered completely.

2 min to tellexcellent to tell 271 wordsR. Eliyahu Akiva Lipskar story_000667

The Hatmaker Who Sews for Whoever Buys

As I Heard Them, Vol. 1, pp. 85-86, no. 16

Introducing a story he had written, the Rebbe said at a farbrengen in New York that whoever repeats a statement in the name of its author brings redemption to the world, and that everyone is obligated in this. The Tzemach Tzedek had said, "I'm like someone who sews hats. Later on, when someone buys the hat, it's a sign that I had sewn it for him." The narrator also heard in Lubavitch from R. Groinem the mashpia that the Tzemach Tzedek said, "I have no one specifically in mind when I discuss a spiritual predicament. But if someone thinks I am talking about him — then indeed I mean him."

2 min to tellexcellent to tell 262 wordsTzemach Tzedek story_000072

The Bochur Full of False Ideas

As I Heard Them, Vol. 1, pp. 158-159, no. 37

R. Moshe Aizel Rabkin, a gvir from Homil, reported hearing the Rebbe speak at a farbrengen — the narrator thinks it was Purim in Menton — about the special qualities of Tomchei Temimim. The Rebbe recounted that a young man had come to Lubavitch seeking acceptance into the yeshivah, was rejected by the administration, and when sent in to the Rebbe was found to be filled with false ideas — yet the Rebbe instructed that he be accepted. Much later, after a levayah in Lubavitch, the Rebbe entered the small zal to recite Yoshev Be'seiser seven times and found that same young man standing there deeply engrossed in davening, oblivious to the commotion.

2 min to tellexcellent to tell 262 wordsRebbe Rashab story_000176

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Tagged to Tisha B'Av, but at a weaker strength.

"Is This the One Whose Leg Hurt?"

As I Heard Them, Vol. 1, pp. 140-141, no. 12

In the summer of 5674 (1914) the narrator's brother fell ill with tuberculosis of the bone and was taken from Homil to Kiev for surgery, then a second and a third operation, after which he was very weak. The narrator wrote a pidyon and sent it to the Rebbe's summer dacha in Zalsha; an opening formed at the site, the phlegm drained, and the doctor, Kostritzky, said he had never seen such a thing. The narrator brought his brother to Lubavitch for Rosh Hashanah 5675, but with the war having begun on Tisha B'Av and the crowds immense they could not obtain yechidus, and lacking money to stay through Sukkos they had to leave on motzaei Yom Kippur; the Rebbetzin let him wait in the small room outside the yechidus room, and when the Rebbe finally emerged very late and the narrator said "This is my brother," the Rebbe asked, "This is the one whose leg hurt?"

4 min to tellexcellent to tell 534 wordsRebbe Rashab story_000151

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Related by subject and under 3 minutes to tell.

“You’re Eating Frankfurters and Speaking About Moshiach”

As I Heard Them, Vol. 1, pp. 478-479, no. 24

After a weekday farbrengen of the Rebbe, bochurim gathered with R. Yoel Kahan, the Rebbe's chozer, whose office was then in R. Yisroel's basement, to review the farbrengen, and afterward began an informal farbrengen of their own. R. Yisroel brought down mashkeh along with frankfurters and cold cuts from his butcher store, and the hungry bochurim ate heartily while R. Yoel explained how the Rebbe was giving them a foretaste of Toraso shel Moshiach. R. Yisroel looked at them and remarked, "M'est frankfurters un m'redt zich veggen Moshiach" — "You're eating frankfurters and you're speaking about Moshiach." The story explains the double meaning: a critique from a generation that held spirituality and material desire could not be mixed, and at the same time an awareness that a new light was dawning in which the material and the spiritual would no longer contradict, their fusion complete with Moshiach's coming.

2 min to tellexcellent to tell 252 wordsR. Yisroel Duchman story_000658

What Darkness Precedes Such Light

As I Heard Them, Vol. 1, pp. 98-99, no. 35

R. Michoel Dvorkin related that during the Sebastopol (Crimean) War, chassidim were sitting with the Rebbe's son R. Chaim Shneur Zalman, the Rebbe of Liadi, when the Tzemach Tzedek walked in. They were saying that the decree of a third army conscription in a single year surely meant it was the time of Moshiach. The Tzemach Tzedek responded: "We do not know darkness. We know only light. And as to the light that will be revealed when Moshiach comes — who knows what sort of darkness will have to precede such a light?"

2 min to tellexcellent to tell 217 wordsTzemach Tzedek story_000091

Who Will Bring Moshiach

As I Heard Them, Vol. 1, p. 178, no. 65

On Simchas Torah 5679 (1918) the narrator heard the following from the Rebbe Rashab. People were discussing the large sums being given to tzedakah, and the Rebbe's son, the Rebbe Rayatz, remarked that they give because the money means nothing to them. The Rebbe Rashab would not tolerate this and said, "Who do you think will bring Moshiach — the penniless? No, the wealthy — they will bring Moshiach."

1 min to tellexcellent to tell 126 wordsRebbe Rashab story_000204

Why the Kosel Remains Whole

As I Heard Them, Vol. 1, pp. 361-362, no. 7

The speaker's second comment: the Kosel Hamaarovi remains whole because it corresponds to the final letter hei of the Divine Name — that is, Malchus, or Knesses Yisroel, the source of Jewish souls. For that reason the Jewish people are whole and will remain whole until the swift arrival of Moshiach.

1 min to tellvery good to tell 131 wordsRebbe Rayatz story_000481

A Tight Hat and a Tight Shoe

As I Heard Them, Vol. 1, p. 235, no. 55

Speaking in the room of his mother, Rebbetzin Shterna Sarah, the Rebbe said that these are the days of Ikvesa diMeshicha. He observed that a hat that is too tight can be tolerated, but a tight shoe is too much to bear, and asked that the Eibershter not press us too hard.

1 min to tellvery good to tell 87 wordsRebbe Rayatz story_000286

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Stories about the subjects this occasion concerns.

Reb Zalman Duchman's Correspondence with the Rebbe

As I Heard Them, Vol. 1, pp. 504-512, no. 1

Selections from Reb Zalman Duchman's correspondence with the Rebbe, beginning with the Rebbe's first letter of 12 Cheshvan 5709 (1948) and Reb Zalman's reply of 23 Cheshvan 5709; over the following 22 months Reb Zalman sent the Rebbe 212 pages that became the foundation of this book. The Rebbe pressed him to send more than "some" stories, citing that a rich man who brings a poor man's offering does not fulfill his obligation, and later instructed that the stories be checked for accuracy of quotations from our sages, told him to choose from or print the letters he already had rather than wait for a new approbation, and asked "Is there any reason to wait?" A 5722 (1962) letter urges support for Colel Chabad, since the redemption depends on our deeds and activities connected to the Holy Land are therefore especially timely. When Reb Zalman submitted a list of donors for a bracha, the Rebbe answered that their reward is already stated in the letters of the Rebbeim from the Alter Rebbe onward, and asked whether the letter had been properly used in the 150th year since the Alter Rebbe's passing.

4 min to tellgood to tell 540 wordsCorrespondence with the Rebbe story_000677

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