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"This Time I Will Thank Hashem" — Michoel Dvorkin on Careful Speech

As I Heard Them, Vol. 1, p. 414, no. 51

At a Shabbos Kiddush on 11 Elul 5696 (1936) — a Kiddush made on mashke, since wine was available only for Pesach — the narrator spoke at great length in gratitude for G-d's kindness. The chossid R. Michoel Dvorkin told him, "Zalman, the Torah states that when Leah said, 'This time I will thank Hashem,' she stopped bearing." These were the instructions of a venerable chossid on how careful one must be in speech.

1 min to tellvery good to tell 134 wordsRebbe Rayatz story_000550

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What Sort of Chossid Sleeps Until Nine

As I Heard Them, Vol. 1, pp. 204-206, no. 12

At Simchas Torah 5685 (1924) in Leningrad, the Rebbe Rayatz spoke passionately against the chossid who sleeps until nine, has davened and eaten by ten, and then strolls Nevsky Street looking where he should not, imagining that a kapotah and gartel or three rubles given to the Rebbe make him a chossid. He cited R. Hillel Paritcher's remark that he does not care for one who strayed and did teshuvah — who knows what sort of teshuvah it was — and explained the teaching that baalei teshuvah stand where perfect tzaddikim cannot: the baal teshuvah is not the same person, he is someone else. He then turned to a young man from Kherson living in Moscow, told him "It's not you," and instructed him to accept divrei chavrus and give a Kiddush on Shabbos Bereishis, adding that everyone must accept upon himself not to sleep past seven in the morning.

4 min to tellexcellent to tell 518 wordsRebbe Rayatz story_000243

"Is This the One Whose Leg Hurt?"

As I Heard Them, Vol. 1, pp. 140-141, no. 12

In the summer of 5674 (1914) the narrator's brother fell ill with tuberculosis of the bone and was taken from Homil to Kiev for surgery, then a second and a third operation, after which he was very weak. The narrator wrote a pidyon and sent it to the Rebbe's summer dacha in Zalsha; an opening formed at the site, the phlegm drained, and the doctor, Kostritzky, said he had never seen such a thing. The narrator brought his brother to Lubavitch for Rosh Hashanah 5675, but with the war having begun on Tisha B'Av and the crowds immense they could not obtain yechidus, and lacking money to stay through Sukkos they had to leave on motzaei Yom Kippur; the Rebbetzin let him wait in the small room outside the yechidus room, and when the Rebbe finally emerged very late and the narrator said "This is my brother," the Rebbe asked, "This is the one whose leg hurt?"

4 min to tellexcellent to tell 534 wordsRebbe Rashab story_000151

"History Will Record This Disgrace"

As I Heard Them, Vol. 1, pp. 263-265, no. 103

The Rashag, the Rebbe's son-in-law, came from Kostrama for Shabbos and after Minchah, near the balcony in the large zal, told a few people in the Rebbe's name what he had undergone and the questions the interrogators had asked. The interrogation room had thin plywood walls, an investigator with a stubby nose and a stutter, and senior officials seated further back. When Lulav and Nachmanson came in, the Rebbe said that history would record the disgrace of who was appointed to interrogate the Lubavitcher Rebbe; when they accused him of espionage he demanded they retract it at once and asked whether they wanted another Beilis Affair; and when they raised his spreading of Torah he said, "I am not a teacher; I salute learning Torah." He refused to answer any questions until his tefillin were returned, and when he put on his hat to say Shehakol over a glass of water and was told he could be made shorter by a head, he answered, "The whole earth is filled with His glory."

4 min to tellexcellent to tell 504 wordsRebbe Rayatz story_000334

The Tailors the Alter Rebbe Saw Coming

As I Heard Them, Vol. 1, pp. 48-49, no. 26

Chaim Meir, the caretaker of the Alter Rebbe's ohel, told the narrator's zeide that two young men once asked to enter the ohel and wept there at length. They explained that they had been tailors working in the villages of the Kursk region who abandoned Yiddishkeit, eating treif and worse; on their way home they stopped at a non-Jew's house near Piena and asked for sausage, whereupon he locked them in and announced he would take their money and kill them, allowing them only time to pray and recite Vidduy. After a full day of weeping he returned their money, explaining that a great tzaddik who had stayed with him and passed away there had instructed him to bring to teshuvah two Jews who would come asking to eat treif.

4 min to tellexcellent to tell 560 wordsAlter Rebbe story_000026

How Reb Aizel's Father Came Around at the Seder

As I Heard Them, Vol. 1, pp. 302-303, no. 35

The zeide related Reb Aizel's own account of how he became a chossid of the Alter Rebbe: whenever the Alter Rebbe heard of a promising young scholar he would send a shliach to draw him close to Chassidus, and such a shliach came to Homil after Sukkos and brought Reb Aizel to Liozna. Returning home for Pesach, Reb Aizel established a minyan davening nusach Chabad, but his father R. Mordechai — who spent much time in Leipzig and kept his distance from chassidim — returned shortly before Pesach and forbade him, on the grounds of honoring one's father, from davening there. At the seder, hearing his son's brilliant expositions on the Haggadah, R. Mordechai understood that Chassidus had not harmed him, permitted him to return to the minyan the next morning, joined the minyan himself for the rest of Pesach, and by Shavuos traveled with Reb Aizel to Liozna.

3 min to tellexcellent to tell 423 wordsRebbe Rayatz story_000394

The Guest Who Was Konson's Grandson

As I Heard Them, Vol. 1, pp. 492-494, no. 14

A member of Anash phoned R. Eliyahu's house asking Mrs. Lipskar to host a family arriving in Toronto with nowhere to stay; things were difficult for her then and she did not answer at once, but when the husband himself called the next day from the road, travelling with his wife and small baby, she gave him her address and prepared her home. After they had rested she asked about their origins, and the guest, whose family name meant nothing to her, said his grandfather was Yisroel Konson of Leningrad and Tashkent — the R. Yisroel Konson who had risked his health to help her and her husband when they hovered between life and death. She was left speechless, and all who heard of the meeting were astounded by the Divine providence; the Lipskars then attended to the family's every need and offered them loans to buy a home in Toronto, so she was finally able to repay a debt that had weighed on her for years.

3 min to tellexcellent to tell 427 wordsR. Eliyahu Akiva Lipskar story_000673

The Dowry and the Villager's Wagons

As I Heard Them, Vol. 1, pp. 79-80, no. 6

The Alter Rebbe asked the Tzemach Tzedek where his dowry money was; told it had been given to a wealthy man in Vitebsk to invest, he asked whether the Tzemach Tzedek would take it back and place it in the chest of contributions for the Rabbi Meir Baal HaNess fund. The Tzemach Tzedek remained silent, and shortly afterward the wealthy man went bankrupt and the money was lost. When the Tzemach Tzedek's wife came in tears to her grandfather, the Alter Rebbe said, "Should my own children not listen to me?" — and told how the Maggid had once sent him and a companion on a mission, where a Jew living fifty verst from the nearest town, hearing them wonder aloud how a Jew could never hear Borchu or Kedushah, had his wagons loaded to move to town before they had even finished davenen, once he learned they were the Rebbe's students.

3 min to tellexcellent to tell 403 wordsTzemach Tzedek story_000062

Sh'u Yedeichem Kodesh: Mochin and Midos

As I Heard Them, Vol. 1, pp. 273-274, no. 116

In the middle of the seudah the Rebbe said that Chassidus should really be spoken but it was not an appropriate time — and then, saying so anyway, began. He related that the first Chassidus the Alter Rebbe said upon leaving the Tainy Soviet was on the verse "Sh'u yedeichem kodesh," because the Alter Rebbe and the Mitteler Rebbe held seemingly different perspectives: the Alter Rebbe considered lev (heart) most important, the Mitteler Rebbe mochin (mind). When the Alter Rebbe came from Petersburg he told the Mitteler Rebbe, "You are correct, only that we must ensure that mochin illuminate the midos" — explaining the verse as mochin being kodesh and midos being "your hands," which must be lifted so that mochin illuminate them. The narrator adds that this is what he remembers, that a few words may be missing, but that he has not added a single letter.

3 min to tellexcellent to tell 391 wordsRebbe Rayatz story_000347

The Agunah Pushed Into the Street

As I Heard Them, Vol. 1, pp. 306-307, no. 41

An agunah came to the Tzemach Tzedek in Lubavitch to ask about her missing husband, and the Rebbe sent her to Reb Aizel in Homil, who said he had no way of knowing where her husband was. She stayed in Homil for weeks, coming daily and weeping while Reb Aizel sent her away, until one day she refused to budge. Reb Aizel began shoving his meshares Mottel Gabeitzik, who in turn shoved the woman through all the rooms and out into the street — the Kiev-Petersburg highway that ran past the house — at the exact moment a wagon carrying her husband was passing. She screamed, the wagon halted, and a settlement was concluded.

3 min to tellexcellent to tell 391 wordsRebbe Rayatz story_000400

The Ten Missing Pages

As I Heard Them, Vol. 1, pp. 305-306, no. 40

The zeide told three stories about Reb Aizel; in the first, Reb Aizel kept the list of the Chalukas HaShas in the Lubavitcher shul in Homil, calling each participant by name to ask whether he had finished his mesechta before the Yud-Tes Kislev siyum. One man answered yes twice, but when asked a third time whether he had learned it that year, he admitted he had learned ten pages of it the previous year before Yud-Tes Kislev. Reb Aizel immediately instructed those present to take Gemaros and divide the ten missing pages among themselves.

3 min to tellexcellent to tell 372 wordsRebbe Rayatz story_000399

"Trust Me" — The Birthday LeChaim and the Miracle of Yud-Beis Tammuz

As I Heard Them, Vol. 1, pp. 268-269, no. 110

On Yud-Beis Tammuz, after being unofficially informed of his freedom, the Rebbe related that on Yud-Beis Tammuz 5654 (1894), his fourteenth birthday, they were on vacation and his father the Rebbe Rashab poured LeChaims. The Rashbatz asked where he had seen such a practice — by his father or his grandfather — and the Rashab answered, "Trust me"; the Rebbe concluded, "And I am grateful to him." Years later, in a yechidus about birthdays, the narrator told the story and the Rebbe Shlita corrected his understanding: the gratitude was directed to the Rashbatz, whose question drew from the Rebbe Rashab the words "Trust me" — and that, said the Rebbe, was the miracle of Yud-Beis Tammuz.

3 min to tellexcellent to tell 362 wordsRebbe Rayatz story_000341

The Nigun of a Beinoni

As I Heard Them, Vol. 1, pp. 279-280, no. 125

The narrator heard the Rebbe speak twice in Leningrad about the nigun known in Lubavitch as 'The Beinoni' (Sefer HaNigunim #46). Once, apparently on Yud-Tes Kislev 5687, the Rebbe said that he himself was not a singer but his father was, and that when Aharon Charitonov, the shochet of Nikolayev, composed the nigun, had he only pictured himself standing in yechidus before his father — something is missing. On motzaei Yom Kippur 5688, after the nigun was sung, the Rebbe said, "This is a nigun of a beinoni. What is a beinoni? You know. Then why aren't you...?" The narrator later wrote the story to the Rebbe in Brooklyn, concluding that each person can find the meaning within himself, and the Rebbe concurred.

2 min to tellexcellent to tell 315 wordsRebbe Rayatz story_000356

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Is This Why You Had Mesiras Nefesh in Russia?

As I Heard Them, Vol. 1, pp. 488-489, no. 9

In Toronto the Rebbe encouraged R. Eliyahu to devote himself to education, and he took a position in a Talmud Torah. Friends repeatedly pressed him toward lucrative business ventures — some who entered them became millionaires — but the Rebbe answered him: being so qualified in education, is this why you had mesiras nefesh in Russia and endured everything to reach Canada, to become a businessman? He stayed in chinuch al pi taharas hakodesh for life, never arriving late once in thirty-six years, was honored at an Eitz Chaim Talmud Torah dinner attended by five hundred people, founded the first Chabad institution in Toronto with R. Yosef Assulski funding a shul and mikva, and served two decades as a spiritual guide in Gan Yisroel camp.

2 min to tellexcellent to tell 325 wordsR. Eliyahu Akiva Lipskar story_000668

A Fifty-Dollar Partner in the Poultry Business

As I Heard Them, Vol. 1, pp. 470-471, no. 6

R. Yisroel first took a job in a butcher store and later opened his own poultry business; in yechidus, when the Rebbe asked him for good news, he reported opening his own butcher shop and asked the Rebbe to be his partner, and the Rebbe gave him a $50 bill. In his characteristic way he told the Rebbe, "If you're giving the money to be a partner, $50 is nothing, and if you're giving it as a segulah, then one dollar is also enough." He rose at four a.m. daily for his delivery route, but used his warmth and humor with his Williamsburg customers to move them to give to charitable causes and to change their view of the Rebbe and Lubavitch; his wife Rochel worked in a factory so that he could give his time to the Rebbe and to helping others, and their children nonetheless felt their parents were devoted to them.

2 min to tellvery good to tell 237 wordsR. Yisroel Duchman story_000640

Funding the Secret Chadarim of Tashkent and Moscow

As I Heard Them, Vol. 1, pp. 484-485, no. 4

In Tashkent R. Eliyahu was a zealous activist: he established chadarim where children were taught Torah, did many deeds of kindness, and helped the public with communal needs. R. Aharon Chazan recounts in his book Neged Hazerem that it was R. Eliyahu who recommended he take a position in the secret cheder network — R. Aharon founded the chadarim and found teachers while R. Eliyahu raised the money to pay them. After his release from the Red Army R. Eliyahu went into business and, despite the danger, profited, using most of the money to support the Chabad underground that secretly maintained yeshivos and chadarim, and to help families whose breadwinner had no work or who were denied ration coupons for refusing to work on Shabbos. Living in Moscow while many religious Jews remained in Tashkent, and with money transfers nearly impossible, he served as a conduit for smuggled goods but dealt only with merchants willing to send some of the wares to the secret yeshivos — all the while in great personal danger.

2 min to tellvery good to tell 224 wordsR. Eliyahu Akiva Lipskar story_000663

No Excuses for Mincha

As I Heard Them, Vol. 1, pp. 207-208, no. 15

On Simchas Torah the Rebbe spoke about davening Mincha. A person who must travel to the Petrogradska side to sell twenty sacks of oats and ten sacks of flour has no excuse when the time for Mincha arrives. And the same is true of a yosheiv ohel sitting absorbed in a deep concept when the clock reaches 4:45 — tearing himself away from that learning to daven is, the Rebbe said, self-sacrifice of the highest order.

1 min to tellvery good to tell 178 wordsRebbe Rayatz story_000246

Ask the Baalei-Batim, Then Do the Opposite

As I Heard Them, Vol. 1, p. 104, no. 44

When the Rebbe Maharin in Niezhin needed to build a house, he called together several baalei-batim to hear their opinion. Afterwards he said that his father, the Tzemach Tzedek, had once said that when you must do something and don't know how, you should ask baalei-batim — and then do the opposite of what they advise.

1 min to tellvery good to tell 118 wordsTzemach Tzedek story_000100

"Serve G-d With Joy" at the Machine

As I Heard Them, Vol. 1, pp. 414-415, no. 52

While the narrator was working at the machine by hand, the well-known chossid R. Michoel Dvorkin walked in and, apparently reading the gloom on his face, said, "Serve G-d with joy!" This echoed the Rebbe Rayatz's teaching that "Six days you shall work" is itself a mitzvah.

1 min to tellvery good to tell 112 wordsRebbe Rayatz story_000551

Surely Likkutei Torah

As I Heard Them, Vol. 1, p. 118, no. 2

R. Elchanan Morozov related that a chossid who was heavily occupied with business and had very little time to study asked the Rebbe Maharash whether he should learn nigleh or the Alter Rebbe's Likkutei Torah. The Rebbe Maharash answered, "Surely Likkutei Torah — it is the Torah's inner dimension."

1 min to tellvery good to tell 106 wordsRebbe Maharash story_000120

The Karbele Gets in the Way

As I Heard Them, Vol. 1, p. 90, no. 23

During the Tzemach Tzedek's lifetime, his son R. Yehudah Leib was in Chernigov and said at a farbrengen that our chassidim would be highly regarded — it is just the karbele, a Russian coin, that gets in the way.

0 min to tellvery good to tell 70 wordsTzemach Tzedek story_000079

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Stalietov Will Never Think to Ask That

As I Heard Them, Vol. 1, pp. 119-120, no. 4

In the summer of 5675 (1915), lodging in Pinsk with R. Yisroel Yitzchak Lubinsky, the narrator heard this from him. The Rebbe Maharash would always say that a matter should be heard as it seems and answered as it seems — in a general manner. When the authorities in Semyanovka, Chernigov province, discovered untaxed alcohol being taken from the factory, a major trial was set for thirteen defendants with R. Yisroel Yitzchak as a witness, and the well-known investigator Stalietov was coming from Petersburg; R. Yisroel Yitzchak went to the Rebbe Maharash in Lubavitch and, because many Yidden faced prison, asked the Rebbe to hear out his prepared answers, ending with one question he did not know how to answer. The Rebbe told him that he is a Yid with a good head who is not sunk in physical desires, while Stalietov is a goy without such a mind and caught up in desires, so it would never occur to him to ask such questions — and so it was: the trial ended favorably.

4 min to tellexcellent to tell 488 wordsRebbe Maharash story_000122

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